You know you’ve found the right woman when your days together get more interesting every day. There are days to our life that are more challenging than others and some that are a little more boring or mundane. The things that make a day more or less interesting are the events that happen in the day, the relationships you engage in and the conversations that develop.
Everyday doesn’t have to be mundane or boring. You don’t really have to have the same conversations with your co-workers, boss and clients each day, but sometimes that’s exactly how it feels. Some women are more intimately in tuned with their own feelings and moods and those of their significant other. It is more second nature to them, knowing if you happen to have had a bad day, need cheering up or are in the mood for a practical joke.
It’s that ability to move quickly between the status quo of everyday life and playing a practical joke that makes both of you laugh for hours that makes some people (men and women) more precious as friends and partners.
But your girlfriend doesn’t have to be intimately acquainted with her inner crystal ball to know how to make life just a little more interesting every day. She might suggest that you both do something outside your comfort zone, spark a conversation she knows you’ll enjoy or propose and idea that stretches your imagination and abilities.
When we stretch ourselves as people to learn something new, try something different or engage in stimulating conversations, we also grow and mature into more interesting people ourselves. There are some people who seem to be able to naturally push us to become better people and others who are genuinely interested in helping us along the way.
You should consider your relationship promising and uplifting if your girlfriend is interested in your personal growth and helps to create an atmosphere in which you both enjoy a bit of interesting conversation or take a leap away from your usual activities.
On the other hand, if she wants you to become someone you aren’t, makes suggestions that you don’t want to follow through on or is judgmental about your lack of desire to try something new, then maybe she’s more interested in living each day outside the “norm” than you are.